Alhamisi, 26 Desemba 2013

Do you remember Meshack from Iringa?

 
Makala ya Meshack Maganga, Iringa

Ndugu zangu, tunapoelekea kuaga mwaka huu wa 2013 na kuukaribisha mwaka mpya wa 2014, nimepata muda wa kukaa na kumshukuru Mungu kwa yote aliyonitendea, ninamshukuru Mungu pia kwa kupata marafiki wapya kupitia mitandao ya kijamii na pia kupitia mtandao huu wa WAVUTI. Kuna walionipigia simu na kuniandika barua pepe na kuna walionitembelea nyumbani Iringa kujifunza Kilimo cha Mboga na kile cha miti. Ninawashukuru sana wote. Karibuni tena na ninawatakia mafanikio mema kwa mwaka ujao.

Mwaka ujao wa 2014 Usikubali watu wenye mtazamo hasi, watu wanao haribu majina ya wenzao, wenye viburi, watu wasiokuwa na shukrani kwa wenzao ama kwa serkali, ama ajira inayo kupotezea muda bila kutimiza malengo yako iendelee kukupotezea muda wako na kukuumiza kisaikolojia na kurudisha nyuma ndoto yako...  Jilinde, Jipende. “Don't die a copy.”

Mwaka huu ujao, Jitengeneze kiasi ambacho utapendwa na kuzungukwa na watu watakaokusaidia kuyafikia uyatakayo (Malengo yako ama ndoto ya maisha yako)  na wafanye wafurahi kuwa na wewe. Wanaweza kuwa wateja wako, marafiki 
zako, waajiri wako, wafanyakazi wako,wasaidizi wako,nduguzako, wajasiriamali wenzako. wafanyabiashara wenzako mahali popote ulipo.

Fanya mambo ambayo yatawafanya wajue kuwa bila wewe yasingetokea. Uwezekano huo upo kwasababu wapo wengine wanafanya hivyo na tunawaona na kuwasikia. Mwimbaji mmoja wa nyimbo za njili wa hapa Tanzania ameimba kwa kusema ‘ katika yale yale yanayowatoa roho watu ndiyo hayohayo wengine wanafanikiwa.’

Hakikisha kuwa unatumia muda wako vizuri. Ishi maisha kwa manufaa usipoteze muda duniani. Muda ndio maisha yako ya kuishi duniani, wengine wanaendelea amka na wewe ufanye kitu.

Jifunze na fanya mambo mapya kila siku ambayo hujawahi fanya hata kama ni mapya duniano.Kumbuka kuwa dunia hii itabaki kuwa na mapungufu siku zote kama hutafanya cha kwako cha kipekee ulichonacho. Jisukume kwenda mbele na kuwa huru kuishi kimanufaa. Na jifunze kutafuta uwezekano katika kila kitu kwani kila kitu kinawezekana kwa atakayetafuta njia ya uwezekano. Fursa zipo Tanzania na hakuna nchi yenye fursa za kufanikiwa kama Tanzania amua kufumbua macho uzione, zipo hata ukibisha zipo. Moyo wako, akili yako na mwili wako vikubali na kupenda kitu hicho hutachoka kufanya Na lazima utasababisha kitu.

Na kwa kipindi cha mwaka huu ujao, acha kuwanyooshea vidole wengine wewe fanya kwa nafasi yako na kwa muda wako kwa kuwa msaada kwa wengine. KUMBUKA Tanzania inarudishwa nyuma na watanzania wanaowanyooshea wengine vidole wakati wao hawajafanya kitu chochote. Kuwa ‘role model’ na ‘mentor’ wa watu. Jitolee ikibidi.

Ukifanya hayo lazima dunia itageukia upande wako.Na ukumbuke kuwa ipo nafasi duniani kwa binadamu atakayeamua kujitengenezea nafasi yake. Kumbuka kuwa Tanzania haiwezi kutambulika bila wewe,haiwezi kuheshimika bila wewe na heshima ya Tanzania inaanza na wewe kimafanikio,kitabia,kiutamaduni, kielimu, kibiashara  na kimtazamo.  Jifunze kusema kuwa Tanzania ni yako na bila wewe Tanzania haiwezi kuitwa Tanzania.

Ninawatakiwa mafanikio mema kwa kwa mwaka huu ujao wa 2014, tufanye kazi, tuanzishe miradi, tununue mashamba ama viwanja, tuwe wapya, tuache lawama, AMUA KUFANIKIWA 2014.

meshackmaganga@gmail.com 0713 48 66 36/ 0767 48 66 36.


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Jumatano, 18 Desemba 2013

Seven ways to make life simple

 
Marc and I received over 700 replies to our previous two 'subscribers only' emails on simplicity. 
So many people told us about the specific complications they're struggling with and requested more simplicity tips.  
So... three times is a charm - our final installment of simplicity advice for the year ahead:

7 Ways to Make Life Simple Again:

A simple life has a different meaning and a different value for every person. 
For me, it means getting rid of some of life’s complexities so you can spend more time with people you love 
and do more of the things you love.  It means getting rid of the clutter, and eliminating all but the essential,
so you are left with only that which gives you value.

For the cynics who might say that the list of ideas below (along with the ideas from our previous emails) is too long to be ‘simple,’ 
there are really only two steps to simplifying:

1. Identify what’s most important to you.
2. Eliminate as much as you possibly can of everything else.

Of course, that advice is not terribly useful unless you can see some examples of how to apply this concept to different
areas of your life; so I present to you…

3.  Learn to let GO of what wasn't meant to be.

Letting go is part of moving on to something better.  
You will not get what you truly deserve if you’re too attached to the things you’re supposed to let go of.  
Sometimes you love, and you struggle, and you learn, and you move on.  And that’s OK.  
You must be willing to let go of the life you planned for so you can enjoy the life that is waiting for you. 
(from the “Simplicity” chapter of our book)

4.  Stop wishing your life away.

The truth is, your whole life has been leading up to this moment.  Think about that for a second.  
Every single thing you’ve gone through in life, every high, every low, and everything in between, has led you to this moment right now.  
This moment is priceless, and it’s the only moment guaranteed to you.  This moment is your ‘life.’  
Don’t miss it. (from the “Goals and Success” chapter of our book)

5.  Start making moves.

Sometimes we ask questions not to seek answers but to affirm something our soul knows already.  
You’re not doing yourself a favor by merely hearing the same answer from people over and over again.  
It is accepting the truth, making a conscious change and finally moving on to other things that is your answer.  
Give your soul a chance to explore the life you are meant to live. 
 Stop asking the same questions – at some point you have to make a decision and take action. 
(from the “Productivity” chapter of our book)

6.  Look for the silver lining in every tough situation.

When things are hard, and you feel down, take a few deep breaths and look for the silver lining – the small glimmers of hope.  
Remind yourself that you can and will grow stronger from these hard times.  
And remain conscious of your blessings and victories – all the things in your life that are right.  
Focus on what you have, not on what you haven’t. (from the “Adversity” chapter of our book)

7.  Spend more time with the right people.

These are the people you enjoy, who love and appreciate you, and who encourage you to improve in healthy and exciting ways.  
They are the ones who make you feel more alive, and not only embrace who you are now, 
but also embrace and embody who you want to be, unconditionally. (from the “Relationships” chapter of our book)

And again, please remember that if you're struggling with any of these points, there is a clear path to getting back on track.  
Your habits are simply broken and need to be repaired.  When you trust a broken set of habits every day, 
it's only a matter of time before life gets confusing and complicated.  It doesn't have to be this way though.  
You can make adjustments starting today that will instantly help you feel better, think more clearly, and live more effectively.

As Always,

Angel Chernoff
Marc and Angel Hack Life
Practical Tips for Productive Living


Source: http://www.wavuti.com/4/post/2013/12/tips-bymarc-angel-seven-ways-to-help-you-make-life-simple-again.html#ixzz2nsxdqYKy

Jumatatu, 9 Desemba 2013

The hard question from Robert Kiyosaki

OF THE FOUR GROUP OF PEOPLE where DO YOU BELONG?

By |December 7, 2013
kiyosakiToday I want to share with you one of an interesting story  from my mentor  Robert Kiyosaki one of my favorite author of all time,To say the truth Robert contributed in a great way to make me stand Where and Who Iam today, Robert Kiyosaki is A multimillionaire,Entrepreneur,Investor,Personal Finance Advocate,and an Author mostly known for his best selling book “Rich Dad Poor Dad”
On this post I will share with you what Robert  explains about an important diagram  called “Cash Flow Quadrant”just read what Robert is trying to share with you.

kiyosaki6  “There was an important diagram my rich dad showed me when I was a little boy. It was a    diagram known as the Cash Flow Quadrant. And the Quadrant is made of four different people who make of the business world.
So my rich dad said, “In the business world there are E’s and E stands for Employees. And the Employees, you can always tell who they are by their core values. An employee with the president, the generator of the company, will always say the same words. The words are“I’m looking for a safe, secure job with benefits.” That’s what makes them employees because their core value is security.”
The other one of the four is the S for the Small business owner or the Self-employed and againtheir core values will cause them to use the same words which are, “If you want it done right, do it by yourself.” S means they are also solo. Generally one person act, they operate by themselves.
THE CASH FLOW QUADRANT
On the right side of the Cash Flow Quadrant are the B’s. And my rich dad said, “the B stood for Big business,  like Bill Gates. Forbes  define Big business as business with 500 employees or more. And their words are different.kiyosaki2
They’ll say, “I’m looking for good system, good network, and the smartest people I know to help run my business.” Unlike the S, they don’t want to run the company by themselves. They want smart people run the company for them.”
And then, the fourth of the Cash Flow Quadrant is the I. And the I stands for the investor. These are people who have money work hard for them. People in  B Quadrant have people work hard for them. And these people in the E & S Quadrant are the people who work hard for the rich here in the right side of the Cash Flow Quadrant, for the Bs and Is.
So, early on in my life it was my poor dad who always said to me, “You know Robert, go to school, and get a high paying job…” And so my poor dad’s core value was to be an employee. He wanted a job security, promotions, steady pay check and all these.
kiyosaki7And so it was my rich dad who said to me, “You know, Robert, if you really want to be rich, learn to build businesses.” It made more sense to him to work hard to build a business. Something you own, and something you pass on from generation to generation to your kids.
Whereas my poor dad said, “work hard…” But my rich dad said,“Why would you work hard for something you’ll never own, and you can get fired from it right away?” Again, that was the difference of values.
So my rich dad suggested I learn how to be a business owner and learn how to be an investor. And that’s where the big difference is. On the left side of the Cash Flow Quadrant, these people work for security, they work for money also.
On the right side of the Cash flow Quadrant the B and I people’s key value, what they want is they want Freedom, financial liberty. They don’t want to have to work in a job anymore. They don’t want to have to work for the rest of their lives.
So the beauty of building a business and learning how to invest is very simply that this is passive income.You work hard for a few years and possibly for the rest of your life that passive income keeps flowing to you.”From 1960 to 2000 the value of the dollar has declined steadily.
“When you take a look at this 40-year run on the dollar, the dollar is designed economically to lose money every single year. So, why would you save something that loses money every year?
And what does this mean for you or for somebody on the retirement plans, if the value of the dollar goes down and your cost of living keeps going up after you retire?To my rich dad that was bad advice and made no sense. Again different values.”
So to summarize as we have  seen what Kiyosaki was trying to explain it makes more sense to work hard in building a system (business) something you  work hard for a few years and possibly for the rest of your life that passive income keeps flowing to you rather than working hard just to meet end needs.
My advice to you if your someone with BIG DREAMS but don’t know where to get started,you can grab this FREE video that explains a business opportunity combining the 3 biggest trends of our time and see if it can be for you too…to access it click here for a Swahili video   or here for a English video
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Your partner in Success
Elizabeth Samoja.
Self Made Entreprewoman.

Alhamisi, 5 Desemba 2013

Tough job to get as the competitiveness runs between 85 - 96

10 Competitive Jobs That Everyone Wants But Hardly Anyone Gets

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One of the biggest job stresses is having to fight with competitors and  coworkers  for clients, commissions, and recognition.
Rather than focusing on your own work, highly competitive fields force you to be constantly aware of what everyone else is doing. 
Competition is particularly acute in visible, hard-to-break-into industries like entertainment and sports, jobs that offer lucrative payouts to top performers, and coveted positions with only a limited number of spots.
Sports and talent agents, for example, constantly fight over a small number of high-profile clients. Poets and writers constantly fight to get published and have their work seen. And athletes compete on a daily basis as their job.
Based on data from the Occupational Information Network (O*NET), a U.S. Department of Labor database full of detailed information on occupations, below are the 10 most competitive jobs in America. The ranking measures the extent that the job "requires the worker to compete or to be aware of competitive pressures."
Each job is scored on a scale of zero to 100, with a score above 75 denoting a job that's extremely competitive:
1. ChoreographersCompetitiveness score:  96
2. Poets, Lyricists and Creative Writers: 95Competitiveness score: 95
3.  Athletes and Sports CompetitorsCompetitiveness  score: 94  
4.  S ales Agents, Securities and Commodities: 93Competitiveness  score: 93
5. Sound Engineering TechniciansCompetitiveness  score: 89 
6. Makeup Artists, Theatrical and PerformanceCompetitiveness  score: 88
7.  Music Composers and ArrangersCompetitiveness  score: 88
8. Real Estate Sales AgentsCompetitiveness  score: 88
9. Coaches and ScoutsCompetitiveness score: 87
10. Agents and Business Managers of Artists, Performers, and AthletesCompetitiveness  score: 85

Jumanne, 3 Desemba 2013

After interview and not employed, asking the hiring manager may not help

Today’s topic is just to help you feel better if you've ever had an interview and didn’t get the job.
 
We all work hard in preparing for a job interview.  We research the company, we practice answering interview questions, we tweak our resume, etc.  The list of things we do is endless.  And after all those countless hours of preparation we find out after a couple of weeks that we didn’t get the job.

Sometimes it’s very difficult to understand the reason why.  We knew we were right for the job and they seemed to like us.  Everything fit, but for some unknown reason they chose someone else. 
 
This story happens more often than not to countless job seekers.  If it happened to you, don’t feel bad, just treat it as a learning experience and move on.

Sending a letter to the hiring manager and asking what it was about you they didn’t like seems like a good idea, doesn’t it?  It’s a very genuine request and if they shared with you the answer, that might help you in future job interviews, right? 
 
But the reality is a cold shoulder and you’re likely to feel even worse after sending a letter only to never hear back from them again.

It’s very unlikely that an employer will share with you the reason(s) they did not choose to hire you.  They probably won’t even respond to you at all. 
 
You see, companies can be held liable for what they say to you, so that’s why they keep their response to the standard “we found another candidate to be a closer match for this position.” 

They’ll never really tell you why, in fact, they probably liked you – they just liked this other candidate a little better. 
 
If this has happened to you, rest assured you are not the only one.  Keep your spirits high and keep interviewing until you find the place that is best for you.

Ijumaa, 29 Novemba 2013

Go to the last point - Why can't you be rich?

10 Reasons You'll Never Be Rich

You don't have to inherit money, win the lottery, or even be the next Bill Gates or Warren Buffett to become financially secure. With a little bit of knowledge and a lot of hard work and discipline, almost anyone can accumulate sufficient wealth -- and perhaps even great wealth -- to enjoy the creature comforts of life.
But how do you get ahead if you're living paycheck to paycheck? The fact is, no matter how much you earn you could be creating your own barriers to financial success without even knowing it. Here are ten things you might be doing that are preventing you from achieving prosperity. Change your ways and you could find yourself well on the way down the road to riches.
You Spend Too Much
Plenty of Americans live beyond their means but don't even realize it. A 2012 Country Financial survey found that more than one-half of respondents (52%) said their monthly spending exceeded their income at least a few months a year. Yet only 9% of respondents said their lifestyle was more than they could afford. Of the 52% who routinely overspend, 36% finance the shortfall by dipping into savings; 22% use credit cards.
Blowing your entire paycheck (and then some) each month isn't an ingredient in the recipe for financial success. Neither is draining your savings or running up card balances. To rein in spending, start by tracking where the money goes every month. Try to zero in on nonessential areas where you can cut back. Then create a realistic budget that ensures you have enough to pay the bills as well as enough for contributions to such things as a retirement account and a rainy-day fund. Our household budget worksheet or an online budgeting site can help.
You Save Too Little
If you're like most folks, your savings habits could use some improvement. The personal savings rate in the U.S. is just 4.9% of disposable income, down from a high of 14.6% in 1975. Only about one-half of Americans (54%) say they have a savings plan in place to meet specific goals, according to a 2013 survey commissioned by America Saves, a group that advocates for better saving habits.
Saving needs to be a priority in order to build wealth. Begin with an emergency fund that can be tapped in the event of an illness, job loss or other unexpected calamity. A 2012 survey by the Financial Industry Regulatory Authority found that 56% of individuals say they have not set aside even three months' worth of income to handle financial emergencies. Once your emergency fund is well under way, you can divert small amounts toward other goals, such as buying a home or paying for college. These six strategies can help you save more, no matter your income.
You Carry Too Much Debt
Americans have $846.9 billion in credit card debt alone. That's $7,050 per household, according to NerdWallet.com, a Web site that analyzes financial products and data. If you're only making minimum monthly payments on $7,050, it'll take 28 years and cost you $10,663 in interest before you're debt-free, assuming a 15% interest rate. And that only holds true if you don't make any additional charges.
Some debts can lead to financial success -- a mortgage to purchase real estate, a credit line to start a business or a student loan to fund a college education -- but a high-interest credit card balance usually doesn't. Pay down credit cards with the steepest rates as quickly as possible. Putting $250 per month toward that same $7,050 debt will retire it in three years and save you about $9,000 in interest versus making minimum payments. See Escape the Debt Trap for more strategies to chip away at what you owe.
You Pay Too Many Fees
Late fees, banking fees, credit-card fees -- the amounts might seem insignificant when taken individually. After all, an overdue library book or Redbox DVD might only run you a dollar. But if you're regularly paying penalties and fees, these charges can quickly eat a hole in your budget. Consider this: The average bank overdraft fee is $32.20, according to Bankrate.com, and the average charge for going outside your ATM network is $4.13. Late-payment penalties for credit cards can climb as high as $35.
So how do you avoid pesky fees? Read the fine print so you understand fee rules, and stay organized so you avoid breaching those rules. Here are 33 common fees you can avoid -- or at least reduce -- with just a bit of effort. With the extra cash, you can pay down debt or boost your savings.
You Pass Up Free Money
Would you ignore a hundred-dollar bill on the sidewalk? Of course not. You'd bend over and pick it up. So why are you passing up other opportunities to get free money? If your employer matches employee contributions to a 401(k) but you're not participating in the retirement plan, then you're passing up free money. If you let rewards points from loyalty programs or credit cards expire, then you're passing up free money. If you claim the standard deduction on your tax return when you qualify for itemized deductions that could lower your tax bill even more, then you're passing up free money.
Believe it or not, there might even be free money out there that you forgot about -- or never knew of in the first place. There are more than $41 billion worth of unclaimed assets ranging from old tax refunds and paychecks to forgotten stocks and certificates of deposit being held by state agencies, according to the National Association of Unclaimed Property Administrators. Do a search onMissingMoney.com to find out if there are unclaimed assets that belong to you.
You Neglect Retirement
It's easy to focus on the present -- the bills you have to pay, the things you want to buy -- and assume you'll have time in the future to start saving for retirement. But the longer you wait, the tougher it will be to amass a sufficiently large nest egg. For example, if you wait until you are 35 to start saving for retirement, you'll have to set aside $671 a month to reach $1 million by age 65 (assuming an 8% annual return). But if you start at age 25, you'll need to save just $286 a month to hit $1 million by the time you're 65.
Even if you're creeping closer to retirement, it's not too late to start putting away money. In fact, Uncle Sam makes it easier for procrastinators to catch up on retirement savings. If you're 50 or over, you can contribute up to $23,000 annually to a 401(k) (versus $17,500 for those younger than 50). The contribution limit for older savers to traditional and Roth IRAs is $6,500 a year (versus $5,500 for everyone else). Use our Retirement Savings Calculator to figure out how much you need to save.
You Buy High and Sell Low
Does this sound like your investing strategy? You hear about a stock that is soaring, and you want to get in on the action, so you impulsively buy. But soon after, the stock starts tanking. You can't bear the pain of watching your shares decline further in value, so you immediately sell at a loss. As a result, you're wasting money rather than building wealth.
Unfortunately, many investors buy high and sell low because they follow the herd blindly into the latest hot stock. You can resist the urge to go with the crowd if you adhere to smart investing techniques. One such technique is dollar-cost averaging, a simple system of investing at regular intervals no matter what the market is doing. While it doesn't guarantee success, it does eliminate the likelihood that you're always buying at the top -- plus, it takes the guesswork and emotion out of investing. See the 7 Deadly Sins of Investing to learn how to overcome common missteps.
You Buy Everything New
New stuff is nice, but it's often not the best investment. Take cars. Estimates vary, but some experts say a new vehicle loses 30% of its value within the first two years -- including an immediate drop as soon as you drive off the dealer's lot. According to Kelley Blue Book, the average vehicle is worth 44% less after five years.
If you're not comfortable buying something that someone else has owned, get over your hang-up because you're missing a big money-saving opportunity. Many pre-owned items can cost up to 50% to 75% less than the price you'd pay if you purchased them new. From designer jeans to college textbooks, here are 11 things that you should consider buying used because you often can find them in good or almost-new condition at a fraction of the price.
You Retire Too Early
An early retirement is a dream for many, but calling it quits if you're too young has several potential drawbacks. For starters, you could incur a 10% early-withdrawal penalty if you tap certain retirement accounts, including 401(k)s and IRAs, before age 59½. (There are exceptions.) You can claim Social Security as early as age 62, but your benefit will be reduced by as much as 30% from what it would be if you wait until your full retirement age, which falls between 66 and 67 depending on your year of birth.
Health care is another big issue. You must be 65 to qualify for Medicare. In the meantime, without access to an employer-sponsored plan, you might have to pay a lot more out of pocket for individual coverage until you're eligible for Medicare.
And speaking of health, the longer you live in retirement, the more likely you are to outlive your nest egg. Let's say you make it to the age of 90. A $1 million portfolio evenly split between stocks, bonds and cash has a 92% likelihood of lasting until you turn 90 if you retire at 65, according to Vanguard. But retire at age 55 and the likelihood drops to 66%. Use our Retirement Savings Calculator to determine when you can really afford to retire.
You Don't Invest in Yourself
This might be the single biggest obstacle on your path to riches. If you're not investing in continuing education, training and personal development, you're limiting your ability to make more money in the future. "Your own earning power--rooted in your education and job skills--is the most valuable asset you'll ever own, and it can't be wiped out in a market crash," writes Kiplinger's Personal FinanceEditor in Chief Knight Kiplinger in Eight Keys to Financial Security.
Consider taking nondegree courses online to boost your knowledge of your field or enrolling in a graduate program (see 5 Advanced Degrees Still Worth the Debt). If you don't have a college degree, see our picks for best college values or check out these four alternatives to a four-year college degree. Just keep in mind that some college majors (think finance, computer science or nursing) lead to more lucrative careers than others (sorry, arts and humanities lovers).

Jumapili, 24 Novemba 2013

The way you dress, tell us a huge thing about you

Are you what you wear?

By Gardy Chacha

Updated Saturday, November 16th 2013

One blogger and acclaimed American writer Leah Wilson wrote: “like it or not, what we dress in is a direct reflection of who we are personally socially, and historically.”
Was she right?
Women around the world dress to leave a lasting impression. In fact, female dressing has been encrypted in history, directly leading into what is known today as fashion business. In her book “You Are What You Wear: What Your Clothes Reveal About You,” Clinical psychologist Dr Jennifer Baumgartner transcribes the topic ‘psychology of dress’, strongly suggesting that a person’s wardrobe has direct effect and meaning to psychological issues that are likely correlated with them.
Dr Baumgartner told Forbeswoman, an online publication, that any human behaviour — way and style of dressing included — is rooted in something deeper.
“The deeper meaning is in choices. Shopping and spending behaviours often come from internal motivations… even putting together outfits. Our clothes help place us where we think we want to be,” she added.
Coded Language
Kenyan clinical psychologist Dr Lincoln Khasakhala of African Medical Foundation agrees with Dr Baumgartner, admonishing that before a person leaves the house for work or a meeting, they should critically consider what they adorn themselves in.
While also addressing other aspects of human dressing, Dr Khasakhala cites the work environment for instance: “When you are going to work, you need to dress the part. It is important because dressing is a way you communicate to your boss and peers at work. It is coded language, therefore, you risk being misunderstood or looked at differently because of your dressing.”
According to Khasakhala, while transacting any type of business, “the person you are engaging with will be able to tell whether or not you are serious with what you do. The way you present outwardly determines how much they would trust you with the job.”
A study published in July last year in the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology introduces the concept of “enclothed cognition”. The study done by Northwestern University researchers describes the systematic influence that clothes have on the wearer’s psychological processes.
The Tomboy
Essentially, the researchers try to prove that the clothes you choose send a message to everyone in your environment. In other words, a person has the power to control how they feel by the simple act of dressing in a particular way.
Eunice Kibati, a confessed tomboy, partially agrees with the idea that what you wear defines the innate person. She says: “If that phrase was to be left the way it is, then many of us ladies would be misconstrued for many things. I am a tomboy, but it’s only because I feel comfortable wearing what I wear. I feel fine in my trousers and shirts.”
However, she also admits that clothes can communicate in particular scenarios: “For example, prostitutes dress the way they dress because they want to attract clients. There are also professions that adhere to certain strict dress code ethics, and it’s only because it builds their client-customer relationships.”
Findings by another study titled ‘The influence of clothing on first impressions’ in the Journal of Fashion Marketing and Management infer that even small changes (details) in clothing choices can communicate different information to a perceiver.
It’s a notion that many agree with. Connecting the relationship between dress code and impression, Susan Wachira, a counselling psychologist at psychosocial support centre in Westlands, Nairobi, says: “Dress code communicates the personality of a person. At every instance, how you wear — in relation to the environment and occasion — can prompt comments from people. From the way a person walks, talks and dresses, you can tell their personalities.”
Colour and Mood
Susan further argues that dress code and colours, to some extent, blend with particular moods. Black dresses and apparels, according to Susan, depict gloom. A jovial mood, on the other hand, is bright right from the outfit also. But even so, unconsciously or otherwise, people commit fashion faux pas when they dress inappropriately for an occasion.
“Today, girls are fond of wearing revealing clothing. When they wear such outfits to work, they come across as inappropriate or even offending to the people around them. It would prompt many to wonder whether the subject lost her way enroute to a night entertainment joint,” adds Susan.
A wrong dress code can be costly. Susan says bosses may, at times, determine the suitability of a person for appraisal or to hold a particular office by the kind of outfit they are fond of.
Harriet Quimby, an employee at a corporate company in Nairobi, agrees with the notion that “you are what you wear”. She says that the way a person dresses corroborates an agenda or a particular theme. Her take is that it matters to many people (even unconsciously) that you wear the right clothing for an occasion.
“When you are on a date, you dress differently compared to when you are going to work. It would also be different for a casual meeting, a party or a church service. Human beings are visual and they will draw conclusions from what you display yourself in,” she says.
“There are ladies who dress provocatively and wish not to be judged from it. Well, the truth is, we human beings have discerning eyes — it is subconscious. That is why people will subtly say ‘She is not my type’ or ‘He looks friendly’,” says Susan.
She adds that men are, especially visual and tend to judge fast based on that basis. What’s undisputable though, adds Susan, is that people tend to be reactionary to visual characteristics. Just like Dr Khasakhala, Susan advises that it would pay to put thought into what you wear as you leave to work, for a meeting or on personal business.

10 Things Billionaires Won’t Tell You

What happens when so few control so much of the world’s wealth

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Berkshire Hathaway Chairman Warren Buffett talks with a shareholder before the company's annual meeting in Omaha May 4, 2013. REUTERS/Rick Wilking/Files
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Berkshire Hathaway Chairman Warren Buffett talks with a shareholder before the company's annual meeting in Omaha May 4, 2013. REUTERS/Rick Wilking/Files
1.“We just get richer and richer.”
In 2013, the wealth of the world’s billionaires reached a record high — helped by 200 newcomers like Facebook founder Mark Zuckerberg. The 2013 Forbes Billionaires List names 1,426 billionaires with an aggregate net worth of $5.4 trillion, up a whopping 17% from $4.6 trillion last year. And that doesn’t include royalty or, um, dictators. Of those, some 442 make their home in the U.S. (there are 386 in the Asia-Pacific region, 366 in Europe, 129 in the rest of the Americas and 103 in the Middle East and Africa combined, according to Forbes). The average net worth of each U.S. billionaire: $10.8 billion, up from $9.1 billion last year, according to a separate survey released this month by private wealth consultancy Wealth-X and UBS.
Meanwhile, the rest of the country’s net worth has actually fallen since the Great Recession — and has yet to recover. Adjusting for inflation, real net worth per U.S. household hovered at $652,449 by the end of June 2013, according to the Federal Reserve, or about 95% of its 2007 level of $684,662. If that seems inordinately high, that’s because the majority of U.S. households carry their net worth in their home. That average also is inflated by, well, millionaires and billionaires: In fact, around half of U.S. households have a net worth of no more than $83,000, a Pew Research Center’s analysis of 2010 Federal Reserve survey found.) And while ordinary Americans have seen their net worth fall since the recession, billionaires saw their net worth rise by over 50% from $3.5 trillion in 2007.
Why are billionaires on the rise? “Daily record highs in the financial markets have caused surging net worth for the richest 1%,” says Mark Martiak, a wealth strategist at Premier Financial Advisors in New York. Commercial and residential real estate values have also been rebounding, he says. “Combined with low inflation and low interest rates for borrowing, this big picture presents a favorable backdrop for the wealthy, in spite of higher taxes, stubbornly high unemployment, the potential Fed tapering and wrangling in Washington,” Martiak says.
2.“One million — or 10 — ain’t what it used to be.”
In a time when the median price of a home in Manhattan is just over $1 million, according to real-estate website Trulia, experts say that being a millionaire no longer means that you’re rich. It could just as easily mean you own your own a home in New York or San Francisco, or have a vacation home on the Jersey Shore. “The word now doesn’t have as much power,” says Charles Merlot, author of “The Billionaire’s Apprentice: How 21 Billionaires Used Drive, Luck and Risk to Achieve Colossal Success.” “In the eyes of the public, even $10 million is considered at the low end of high-net-worth.”
For the global elite, keeping up with the Joneses, Gateses and Buffetts can require, at bare minimum, an eight-figure annual income. The online listing site Jameslist.com, a Craigslist for the super-rich, lists helicopters for a snip at $7 million-plus. (Failing that, one could always quietly take a share in one through a site like FlexJet.) For those who believe a Bentley is too — well, obvious — the fastest and most expensive production car in the world is the $2.4 million Bugatti Veyron Super Sport car. Billionaires who don’t want (or like) their neighbors can check out PrivateIslandsOnline.com, which has a collection of hideaways around the world to choose from. The 225-acre Katafanga Island in Fiji in the South Pacific is currently on the market with a price tag of $20 million.
In the movie “The Social Network,” a semi-fictionalized account of the founding of Facebook (FB), Justin Timberlake, in the role of Napster founder and early Facebook backer Sean Parker, tells the Mark Zuckerberg character, “A million dollars isn’t cool. You know what’s cool? A billion dollars.” (Parker has, in interviews, denied he ever said that in real life.) Indeed, those who have worked with billionaires say that, to be considered rich among their elite, a million doesn’t cut it. Billionaires and millionaires may sit side-by-side on boards, Martiak says, but handshakes and smiles aside, billionaires don’t see millionaires as their equals.
3. “This is basically a boys’ club.”
Women are making some progress: There are 138 women among the 1,426 people on Forbes’s Billionaires List this year, up from 104 last year.
Still, more than 90% of billionaires are men. Perhaps that should come as no surprise, considering that just 4% of CEO positions at Fortune 1,000 companies are held by women — a strikingly small proportion considering that 18% of members of Congress and 30% of U.S. District Court Judges are female.
Luckily, rising through the corporate ranks isn’t the only or even the most common way to become a billionaire. The richest woman in the world — Liliane Bettencourt, 91, who has $30 billion — inherited her fortune from her father, who founded the cosmetics giant L’OrĂ©al. And the late Rosalia Mera, one of the 20 richest women in the world, was self-made: Although she dropped out of school at age 11, she co-founded the global clothing chain Zara (she died in August).
A more novel theory for the boys’ club: For some young male billionaires, testosterone may have given them their start. “The coolest thing about Mark Zuckerberg and Eduardo Saverin is that they never did it for the money,” says Ben Mezrich, author of “The Accidental Billionaires” and “Bringing Down the House,” which became the sources for “The Social Network.” “The main impetus for them at the very beginning was to meet girls. It turned into a billion dollars.”
4.“I may be smart, but I got a head start.”
America’s billionaires tend to also be among its most well-educated, recent research suggests. In “Investigating America’s Elite,” published in the journal Intelligence, Duke University psychologist Jonathan Wai found that billionaires are more likely than CEOs, judges, senators or House members to have attended colleges with the most rigorous admission standards
But were they born smart, or born lucky? Wai says it’s a bit of both. Most billionaires — including Bill Gates, America’s richest man, and son of a successful lawyer — were born into a upper middle-class backgrounds, he says. The father of billionaires David and Charles Koch was Fred C. Koch, the founder of Wood River Oil and Refining Company, today known as Koch Industries; granted, the Koch brothers turned the company into the multi-billion dollar conglomerate it is today. S. Robson Walton, chairman of Wal-Mart, is the son of Sam Walton, the founder of Wal-Mart. “The first trick to becoming a billionaire is being born a millionaire,” says author Mezrich.
In fact, plenty of billionaires were not born with financial advantages. Sheldon Adelson, 80, CEO of the Las Vegas Sands casino and resort, was born in a working-class neighborhood in Boston; his father was a cab driver. Stephen Bisciotti, 53, the majority shareholder of the Baltimore Ravens, worked his way through school; his father died when he was eight. Lynn Tilton, 54, founder of private equity firm Patriarch Partners, grew up in the Bronx, and was a single mother working 100 hours on Wall Street in her 20s. “I can’t even remember my 20s,” she says, “they were so dark.”
5.“It’s like Monopoly money.”
Billionaire Donald Trump offered to build a $100 million ballroom for the White House in 2011, but that’s nothing compared with what some of the mega-rich have actually spent without blinking. In 2010, Russian oligarch Roman Abramovich purchased his latest yacht — the 536-foot-long “Eclipse”— for a reported price of about $1 billion. In 2009, Saudi prince Alwaleed bin Talal bin Abdul Aziz al-Saud bought an Airbus A380 for $400 million. In 2006, Mexican businessman David Martinez bought a Jackson Pollock classic drip painting from music producer David Geffen for $140 million. And in 2012, real estate mogul Stan Kroenke bought a 240,000-acre Montana ranch for more than $132 million.
But in some cases, the lavish spending is all relative. Oprah Winfrey, 59, was reportedly recently in the market for a $38,000 Tom Ford handbag, but she’s worth an estimated $2.9 billion, according to Forbes — so the handbag would cost just 0.001% of her wealth.
Indeed, “most billionaires can actually be very cheap,” says David Friedman of Wealth-X. Many have spent their lives trying to make a profit and doing accounting in their heads. “They’ll ask for the receipt in a restaurant and argue over 50 cents,” he says. “But then they’ll go buy a jet for $50 million.”
6. “What scares us? Divorce lawyers.”
Luckily, and perhaps not coincidentally, divorce is relatively rare among the moneyed set. Of the 84% of billionaires who are married, only 8% are divorced, according to a survey of the world’s billionaires published by Wealth-X earlier this month. That’s far lower than the U.S. divorce rate: Some 40% to 50% of marriages overall end in divorce, according to the National Marriage Project at the University of Virginia.
Billionaire divorces can cost hundreds of millions of dollars and exact a heavy toll on the couple’s privacy, says Janet Lowe, author of books about biographies of several billionaires, including Berkshire Hathaway’s (BRK-A) Charlie Munger and Google co-founders Larry Page and Sergey Brin. The 2003 divorce between former General Electric head Jack Welch and his second wife Jane Welch, she says, is a prime example: Divorce paperwork filed in Connecticut revealed the couple’s high (and previously undisclosed) standard of living, and major newspapers throughout the U.S. publicized the details, focusing on the generous benefits Welch received as a retired GE exec. The Securities and Exchange Commission then launched a formal inquiry into Welch’s compensation agreement, and Welch voluntarily gave up his GE retirement package, valued at $2.5 million a year. “In this environment, I don’t want a great company with the highest integrity dragged into a public fight because of my divorce proceedings,” Welch wrote in a column for The Wall Street Journal at the time, explaining his decision.
7.“We didn’t get rich investing in stocks.”
If you want to be a billionaire and you’re starting from scratch, don’t bet on the stock market, some advisers say. Sure, an individual who happens to invest at the bottom of the market and sell at the top can do quite well. In general, “if you beat stock indexes by 1% consistently over 20 years, you’re a massive superstar,” says Martin Fridson, author of “How to Be a Billionaire: Proven Strategies From the Titans of Wealth.” But at that rate, it’ll be a long time before the average investor becomes a billionaire. Here’s another way to look at it: If you earned 15% a year on your investments — an astronomical benchmark that almost nobody has consistently hit — you’d still have to start with about $65 million in order to wind up with $1 billion after 20 years.
Many billionaires — Steve Jobs, Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg — instead made their fortunes in start-ups, says Robert Klein, founder and president of Retirement Income Center, a retirement and income planning firm in Newport Beach, Calif. (Klein is also a MarketWatch RetireMentor) The founders of Twitter likewise became billionaires with their IPO earlier this month. “You’re far more likely to become a billionaire in Silicon Valley than on Wall Street”, says wealth strategist Martiak. “Wall Street becomes far more important later on when you’re preserving their wealth.”
8.“You say evading, we say avoiding.”
There’s no data on whether the ultrawealthy shirk their responsibility to pay taxes more often than the average citizen, but incidents involving billionaires certainly garner more media attention — presumably because of the vast sums involved. “A lot of billionaires try to avoid paying taxes,” says Friedman of Wealth-X. The latest to be named and shamed — and face jail time: Ty Warner, 69, CEO of Ty, the maker of stuffed Beanie Babies and worth an estimated $2.6 billion, according to Forbes. “I apologize for my conduct,” Warner told a U.S. District Court in Chicago in October. “I made a mistake. I’m fully responsible.” He owes the government $53.6 million for failing to file a report on foreign financial accounts, one of the largest offshore-account penalties ever.
The line certainly gets blurred between illegal tax evasion and lawful tax avoidance. For the most part, Martiak says, “no-one is deliberately or intentionally avoiding paying tax.” The very wealthy — billionaires included — also have the opportunity to pay a far smaller percentage of their income in taxes, since most of their income is from investments and, therefore, taxed at lower rates than wages and salary.
Around 25% of all millionaires — 94,500 taxpayers — pay a lower tax rate than 10.4 million moderate income tax payers, according to a 2012 report by the Congressional Research Service, a government agency that analyzes public policy data.
9. “My family hates me, loves my money.”
Spare a thought for Gina Rinehart, 59, Australia’s richest woman — whose children, John Hancock, 37, and Bianca Rinehart, 36, are suing her. They allege that she engaged in serious misconduct as trustee of the family’s multibillion-dollar trust by trying to delay the date when the trust’s beneficiaries — her four children — could access their money. (Gina Rinehart’s law firm, Corrs Chambers Westgarth, says she denies all wrongdoing and, in a statement released to the press, said she’s offering to give up her role as trustee to end the litigation.)
Not all family disputes are about money, however. Nor is it always the kids suing the parents: Financier T. Boone Pickens sued his son Michael in February for alleged defamation, libel, invasion of privacy, intentional infliction of distress and harmful access by computer, after Michael began writing about the family in a blog called “5 Days In Connecticut.” Collin Porterfield, an attorney representing Michael Pickens, says the case is being considered by Dallas County Court and no decision had been reached.
10. “King Lear taught me everything I know.”
Most billionaires have traditionally left their fortune to their offspring or brought them into the family business. Case in point: Three of Donald Trump’s children work in the family business and even appear on his reality TV show, “The Apprentice.” These days, however, more billionaires are taking a slightly different tack. At least 30 billionaires have chosen to sign the “Giving Pledge,” an initiative started in 2009 to encourage the ultrawealthy to give away half their wealth. (Warren Buffett has pledged to give away 99% of his wealth. He once told a television interviewer: “I want to give my kids just enough so that they would feel that they could do anything, but not so much that they would feel like doing nothing.”)
Others who have made the pledge thus far include hotelier Barron Hilton, banker David Rockefeller, financier Ronald Perelman, Citigroup founder Sandy Weill and his wife, Joan, hedge-fund managers Julian Robertson Jr. and Jim Simons, private-equity financier David Rubenstein and “Star Wars” creator George Lucas. In fact, Lucas, 69, also sold off the bulk of his business empire last year, which some experts say will prevent a power struggle among his three adopted children after he’s gone.
For many billionaires, their legacy becomes more important than their money, says Martin Fridson, author of “How to be a Billionaire: Proven Strategies from the Titans of Wealth.” Although they obviously didn’t become billionaires by accident, he says many billionaires mellow with age: “They’ll usually tell you, ‘I never set out to be a billionaire, I set out to do good.’”