Jumatano, 18 Desemba 2013

Seven ways to make life simple

 
Marc and I received over 700 replies to our previous two 'subscribers only' emails on simplicity. 
So many people told us about the specific complications they're struggling with and requested more simplicity tips.  
So... three times is a charm - our final installment of simplicity advice for the year ahead:

7 Ways to Make Life Simple Again:

A simple life has a different meaning and a different value for every person. 
For me, it means getting rid of some of life’s complexities so you can spend more time with people you love 
and do more of the things you love.  It means getting rid of the clutter, and eliminating all but the essential,
so you are left with only that which gives you value.

For the cynics who might say that the list of ideas below (along with the ideas from our previous emails) is too long to be ‘simple,’ 
there are really only two steps to simplifying:

1. Identify what’s most important to you.
2. Eliminate as much as you possibly can of everything else.

Of course, that advice is not terribly useful unless you can see some examples of how to apply this concept to different
areas of your life; so I present to you…

3.  Learn to let GO of what wasn't meant to be.

Letting go is part of moving on to something better.  
You will not get what you truly deserve if you’re too attached to the things you’re supposed to let go of.  
Sometimes you love, and you struggle, and you learn, and you move on.  And that’s OK.  
You must be willing to let go of the life you planned for so you can enjoy the life that is waiting for you. 
(from the “Simplicity” chapter of our book)

4.  Stop wishing your life away.

The truth is, your whole life has been leading up to this moment.  Think about that for a second.  
Every single thing you’ve gone through in life, every high, every low, and everything in between, has led you to this moment right now.  
This moment is priceless, and it’s the only moment guaranteed to you.  This moment is your ‘life.’  
Don’t miss it. (from the “Goals and Success” chapter of our book)

5.  Start making moves.

Sometimes we ask questions not to seek answers but to affirm something our soul knows already.  
You’re not doing yourself a favor by merely hearing the same answer from people over and over again.  
It is accepting the truth, making a conscious change and finally moving on to other things that is your answer.  
Give your soul a chance to explore the life you are meant to live. 
 Stop asking the same questions – at some point you have to make a decision and take action. 
(from the “Productivity” chapter of our book)

6.  Look for the silver lining in every tough situation.

When things are hard, and you feel down, take a few deep breaths and look for the silver lining – the small glimmers of hope.  
Remind yourself that you can and will grow stronger from these hard times.  
And remain conscious of your blessings and victories – all the things in your life that are right.  
Focus on what you have, not on what you haven’t. (from the “Adversity” chapter of our book)

7.  Spend more time with the right people.

These are the people you enjoy, who love and appreciate you, and who encourage you to improve in healthy and exciting ways.  
They are the ones who make you feel more alive, and not only embrace who you are now, 
but also embrace and embody who you want to be, unconditionally. (from the “Relationships” chapter of our book)

And again, please remember that if you're struggling with any of these points, there is a clear path to getting back on track.  
Your habits are simply broken and need to be repaired.  When you trust a broken set of habits every day, 
it's only a matter of time before life gets confusing and complicated.  It doesn't have to be this way though.  
You can make adjustments starting today that will instantly help you feel better, think more clearly, and live more effectively.

As Always,

Angel Chernoff
Marc and Angel Hack Life
Practical Tips for Productive Living


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